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When I think of self-image, my understanding has always been informed by my years of clinical psychological practice. I view the self-image as an integral part in being able to make the necessary adjustments in ones thinking and behaving patterns.…

The exploration of masculine and feminine energies should be given more attention in research because I feel that both masculinity and femininity are key components in understanding relationships in greater depth. The intention in this understanding is to essentially assist…

 Relationships follows a generally common flow over a lifespan that is dependent on how long we can remain in a state of good communication, tolerance and love. The three factors, good communication, tolerance and love are fundamentals in the maintenance…

It doesn’t matter which disorder I focus on, be it OCD or Bipolar, or Depression. All of them have a common component that is hardly spoken about. This is namely sexual deservingness. Deservingness in general is a hard topic to…

I’ve not always been kind to myself in life, although from the outside my demeanour has always served as a suitable armour for the internal battle I was always in. I always thought that it protected me from getting hurt…

I, at the best of times am very critical of my male counterparts because I truly believe that we have an abundance of potential in being able to add pure value to all of the systems we find ourselves in.…

THE CHALLENGE OF WARRIORSHIP is to live fully in the world as it is and to find within this world, with all its paradoxes, the essence of nowness. If we open our eyes, if we open our minds, if we…

Boundaries are one of the most important factors to consider in any relationship. The communication of which is not always the easiest. The first step in being effective in placing helpful boundaries within a relationship is firstly knowing where YOUR…

Purity is the first task of a triad necessary for men to master. The key aspect to understand purity is in its definition.    The dictionary definition of purity is freedom from adulteration or contamination, or freedom from immorality.   …

I am fortunate to work with many couples on their journey almost daily. A common theme that arises in the therapy sessions I provide is the feeling of being completely alone and isolated within the relationship.   This sense of…